Comments on: Limerence in the Observer https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=limerence-in-the-observer Life, love, and limerence Sat, 29 Jun 2024 03:38:05 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.9 By: Snowphoenix https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-59274 Sat, 29 Jun 2024 03:38:05 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-59274 Dr L, congratulations to your 2nd book! I’ll get a copy for my LO.

]]> By: why https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-59170 Wed, 26 Jun 2024 14:28:34 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-59170 In reply to Limerent Emeritus.

I echo this with another commenter’s brilliant idea of having a digital copy version too. It’s not going to be fun without the real feel of paper, but at least I can read them behind my e-reader’s password.

Congrats on finishing your book writing and looking forward to the release date, Dr. L!

]]> By: David https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-58992 Fri, 21 Jun 2024 23:14:45 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-58992 What she says about early childhood is completely wrong. There are twin studies on attachment, and differences do not come primarily from early childhood environment. https://toddkshackelford.com/downloads/Barbaro-et-al-PsychBull.pdf

There is also a study that found only a .17 correlation (no correlation) between age 1 and age 20 http://labs.psychology.illinois.edu/~rcfraley/attachment.htm

NIMH even defunded strange situation experiments https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10046260/

Also see https://www.fatherly.com/health/attachment-theory-wrong-attachment-styles-dont-matter

]]> By: MJ https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-58719 Sun, 16 Jun 2024 03:00:48 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-58719 Dr. L congrats and well done finishing the book. I will be looking forward to getting a copy and it will probably find a home on my nightstand when it arrives. Lord knows I can always use the help. Grateful for you and this website.

]]> By: Lim-a-rant https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-58713 Sun, 16 Jun 2024 00:10:38 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-58713 Congrats Dr L. This place is a goldmine of great advice that I can see has helped so many folks, and your blogs are always done with a splash of humour around such a heavy subject. I’m sure in book form it will be brilliant too – if anybody who needs ir can get the book into the house past their SO, of course! Enjoy the freedom of having this project out of the in-tray.

]]> By: Sammy https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-58710 Sat, 15 Jun 2024 23:39:28 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-58710 Congrats, Dr. L. on completing your second book! Judging from your blog posts, I’m sure it’s similarly very well-written. And I’m sure it will be of great interest to people struggling to make sense of their own topsy-turvy emotional experiences. 😛

]]> By: SO.Miranda https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-58707 Sat, 15 Jun 2024 21:44:50 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-58707 Congratulations, Dr. L! I’m so impressed and grateful that you’ve continued to post here every week despite what must have been a demanding schedule with the book. I look forward to reading it.

]]> By: Mila https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-58706 Sat, 15 Jun 2024 21:15:27 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-58706 Congratulations Dr.L, what an achievement!

]]> By: Imho https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-58703 Sat, 15 Jun 2024 20:38:42 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-58703 In reply to frederico.

f, I’m very glad you found it useful too. You are a quick reader, my friend!

]]> By: frederico https://livingwithlimerence.com/limerence-in-the-observer/#comment-58702 Sat, 15 Jun 2024 20:03:14 +0000 https://livingwithlimerence.com/?p=3717#comment-58702 In reply to Imho.

Even as a single limerent, I appreciated reading this article. It feels as if Philippa Perry really understands. Her suggestions must be worth a try. Thanks, Imho.

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