I have in mind a few people in my circle who could probably benefit from this book also.

The entire LE I experience on a daily level, seems to befuddle every one person I have disclosed it to and in many cases, they believe it should be as easy to shut down, like turning off a light switch.

Oh if it was only that easy, I would’ve cut off the main power supply months ago..

Me too!

I love Kurt Vonnegut!

“DrL: Hope the new book would put the term “limerence” on the accredited map of mental health, and on majority people’s psychological radar.”

Very much agree. And perhaps Dr.L’s book can help with that. It’s hard to work on something when you and the people around you think it’s just a crush or infatuation but you, in your head, know that it is so much more than that but have no answers to your own questions.

Finding out about limerence after the fact meant that mine got out of hand because I didn’t know how to counter, and instead embraced it. Had I had answers maybe it wouldn’t have gotten out of hand. Here’s hoping it will more people as early as possible.

I got your cute book, not for myself, but for LO, just in case I decide to disclose my LE to him. I wish him to truly grasp what has happened to me and why from the neuroscience perspective, instead of assuming I was a lovesick lunatic, purely lacked sounding reasons and willpower to control my uncontrollable limerence.

Of course, if LO is non-limerent type or covert arrogant, he’d still be confused or just laughed it off as nonsense (— intuitively I don’t think it will be the case); But at least, I’ll have tried.

After reading it, together with Tenov’s and some quotes of other limerents that I found spot-on, list with useful links, I have now made ‘an emergency package’. Just in case I get limerent again. Or my son does. (It might be helpful to hand him all the wisdom at one place).

THAT big was the impact of limerence on me, that I find such a ‘package’ an absolute must (18 months after NC and still recovering. I am slowly getting my old life back, but still not completely there).

So I guess your new book will become a welcome addition to that package.
Good writing!

Maybe more an internet somebody that only a select few special sensitive individuals know about. We will have to prepare ourselves to share Dr L for the mainstream and to go stratospheric !!!

Looking forward to the book and changes within the forum here.