Comments on: A limerence quiz

By: Qwerty

Qwerty — Thu, 14 Mar 2024 06:38:12 +0000

In reply to Glo. This is a very good question. I have experienced part of these symptoms, and nothing for many of them. Is what I am experiencing a variant or something else altogether? I am obsessed, in possible denial about the romantic aspects, and just want to be in touch with the person.

By: Bob

Bob — Fri, 28 Oct 2022 01:46:36 +0000

ALL.

By: Jamie

Jamie — Fri, 07 Oct 2022 03:37:03 +0000

In reply to david harris. It's been my experience that the longer I play, the more time, $, energy and effort I lose on this [Edited by Dr L].

By: Brandy

Brandy — Mon, 02 May 2022 20:58:22 +0000

Someone help me please.. idk what to do.. it hurts so much. I try to deny having this to myself ..I just can’t go on like this. I just want it to stop.

By: Tony Jupp

Tony Jupp — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 21:59:34 +0000

My life was seriously being compromised but my addiction to LO luckily what with he Christmas break gaving me some respite to calm my delussions. To talk is very therapeutic and I hope that stumbling upon this site with so many experiences expressed will give power to those susceptible to Old.

By: Joan Airey

Joan Airey — Sat, 27 Nov 2021 20:09:11 +0000

I think constantly fantasising about being with LO, which is of course an impossibility, could be featured here.

By: Skyler

Skyler — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 23:23:04 +0000

Thank you for this interesting post. I have been browsing your blog as I am experience a rather intense LE at the moment. I resonate with almost every one of these statements with the exception of #11. I have a current partner I’ve been with for 6.5 years. After falling into a LE for a new individual, and communicating about this with my partner, I have actually felt stronger romantic/emotional/sexual connection to my long-term partner as a result. I understand that for most people in monogamous relationships this may not be the case. However, as I lean into this new paradigm of polyamorous love, I am finding that my limerent feelings are actually reigniting for my current partner in a similar but less intense way than they are towards my new LO. I’m not sure if this phenomenon is unique to me because I am open to loving multiple people at the same time, but it’s quite an incredible experience.

By: Shannon

Shannon — Tue, 27 Jul 2021 15:25:47 +0000

In reply to Thomas. Hello, Thomas! I can relate. :)

By: Shannon

Shannon — Tue, 27 Jul 2021 15:22:43 +0000

Hello, Thomas! I can relate 🙂

By: Marcia

Marcia — Sun, 25 Jul 2021 00:19:27 +0000

In reply to Marcia.

Sammie,
I LOVE Camille Paglia. I kind get a kick out of her. She’s a contrarian. She likes to irritate the feminists. 🙂 In all seriousness, she’s an extremely bright woman.
“Straight men do want women who play that mothering role to some extent. ”
Do they?
You wrote about it being natural that people are nervous around people they like, and I totally agree. The last guy I spent time with was nervous, visibly nervous. I remember asking him what I could do to make him more comfortable. But I was nervous, too. It’s a lot to ask of someone to make up for their nervousness and yours.