A couple of weeks ago, I had a really interesting chat with Sarah Khan on her Unmasking Narcissism channel. We talked about limerence, trauma bonding, narcissism, healthy love, and how they all …
On not knowing what you want
Note: this is an updated version of an older post. Limerence upends life. Whatever your situation when a new LO appears in your world, everything changes. The disruption is probably …
Choosing a partner wisely
I'm away on holiday at the moment, but following on from Owen's case study last week, here's an interesting video from the School of Life about how to choose a partner …
Evolutionary traps for limerents
From time to time, the topic of monogamy and human mating strategies comes up in discussions about limerence. Obviously mating behaviour will have a big bearing on limerence, and I've argued …
Playing with fire
Note: this is an updated version of an earlier post It's not an easy thing to abstain from bliss. For limerents in a long-term relationship who are suddenly struck by limerence for someone …
Questions to ask if you are married but limerent for someone else
This week's video is about that most painful of limerent situations: what to do if you are married but limerent for someone else. https://youtu.be/kX-DkQPwucU?si=HEk5QkCoKgNNRDX8 It breaks …
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