A couple of weeks ago, I had a really interesting chat with Sarah Khan on her Unmasking Narcissism channel. We talked about limerence, trauma bonding, narcissism, healthy love, and how they all …
A new way to look at love
Here's a recording of the talk I gave a couple of weeks ago in Harrogate, to a general audience who were not necessarily familiar with the concept of limerence. It's a rehearsal, so not as slick or …
Obsessive love explained
Another busy week for me, so here's my latest YouTube video about why limerence exists: https://youtu.be/y9EbF68EMGo?si=vq5KyCCVZ1a1KS9k Romantic love is great, and there are obvious reasons …
Big ideas in intimate spaces
Quick update post this week. This thursday Sep 11th, I’ll be giving a talk on limerence at the Berwin’s North Salon in Harrogate, UK. These events are a great concept - an old-school …
Biased brains and bonding
I posted a new article on Psychology Today this week, all about brain lateralization—whether the brain can be …
Choosing a partner wisely
I'm away on holiday at the moment, but following on from Owen's case study last week, here's an interesting video from the School of Life about how to choose a partner …





